how's your friend doug doing?
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marilee |
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holy shit. that's some snow you guys got.
how's your friend doug doing? |
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YOUNGUN39 |
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Thanks for asking. He went to set up his appointments for radiation and chemo today. He
had a friend who lives about 25 miles away going to the same clinic to get follow up treatments for her cancer, so he had someone to be there and more or less
let him know how it's going to be. I think he is going to be alright. I still wish I could be there for him, though, but such is life. I'm there with
him in spirit.
The snow stopped, again. I think it's over for today. I think we may be hit again tomorrow but I just hope it's the last of it for the season. Most of us up here are pretty sick and tired of the stuff by now. Is is Spring yet?
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flybaby014563 |
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I'm tired of people telling me how I should live my life. Ok, so my ex-boyfriend Sarek and I are still really good friends and he's now going to be a
regular on my Tuesday night radio shift. My friend is trying to tell me how to live my life because I still have feelings for Sarek and says I should have come
and talked to him about that fact. Ok, first of all, Sarek already has a girlfriend. I don't know if he actually "loves" her, but he says that
they might break up soon...how soon, I don't know and I don't care. That's there thing and I'm staying out of it. 2nd I told Sarek that if they
do break up, that he's welcome to start over again with me if he wants to. I told my friend LaMont that and he was all like, "no you shouldn't
have done that!" Ummm...ok...who are you to say what I should say or not? I can handle myself thank you very much. LaMont tends to get on my nerves
sometimes...
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Necromancer1000 |
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People sometimes seem to think they know what's better for you than you do. I'm sure they're doing it because they care, but still, it can be
annoying. It's your life to live. We're all living our lives differently anyway so it's hard to understand why some people do that. Be happy with
your choices and try to ignore what others think and say. Besides, LaMont is probably better at giving advice than taking it.
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marilee |
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Is anyone else having bad allergies this season?? I've been sucking down Zyrtec, Benadryl and inhaling albuterol and buying boxes of Kleenex, 8 boxes at a
time. I've also been using lots of Patanol eyedrops, I've gone through one vial already and those are $65 each!
If you want to get rich quick, make sure you buy stock in one of the above!! On a more positive note, I have finally dragged my butt back to school to complete my MBA. happy spring (if you're in this hemisphere) |
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Necromancer1000 |
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Yeah, allergies suck, Marilee. I have allergies and one of them is to some grasses...and guess what's growing in part of my backyard? Yep, it gives me the
itches something fierce. I sprayed it with herbicide the other day, so hopefully that'll control it. I don't suffer from things like hayfever or what
have you, thank goodness.
Congratulations on wanting to go back to school. I wish you all the best with it. |
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GlitterGrrl2 |
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Not so much a rant, but it's still kinda bad, any way you flip it. It's more I guess a 'be careful' anecdote.
This past Friday evening, I was assaulted at a bus stop waiting for the night bus back to my dorm, by someone I had never met before in my time here, and it took me almost 45 minutes to get away from him. It was the longest 45 minutes of my life. I finally found a way to get away and walked so fast I am sure I left skidmarks on the pavement. Luckily, I was not hurt, apart from some major emotional scars that are still surfacing and was coherant enough to give an accurate description of the guy, down to his jewelry. Thankfully, the porters and warden at my dorm took down my complaint, called the cops and they took my statement down. They are now in the process of looking through things, CCTV tapes and the like to see if they can find him on the screens. I had never in my life felt so helpless and frightened. It's been a hellish 48 hours for me. I am getting better, but I will not be getting the Night Bus ever again, not by myself. And I will be carrying a personal alarm w/me at all times from now on. I know I have some long time friends on here, and just wanted to let folks now why I hadn't been around for a few days. Thanks for reading. |
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Ballyorn |
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Oh My God, Christie!!! That is terrible!! I'm so glad that you were not hurt, and hope with time, you can work through the emotional scars. Thank you
for posting this here, I know, it must have been hard for you to do that but believe me, talking about the incident whether online or family, friends or a
councillor is the best way to deal with it.
Please let us know how you are going!! Thinking of you!
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GlitterGrrl2 |
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It's getting better as I talk to my circle of friends about it, but it's still at times like it didn't happen to me, that I was watching from
outside myself. The most unreal experience I have ever had in my life. Ironically, one of my flatmates had something similiar happen to her years back, so she
knows exactly what I am mucking through now, and she's been a wonder. The police, btw, have been very helpful and understanding about all of this. I must
have sounded like a shattered wreck, and I was, but they listened, and one of the officers has been back twice to check on me. I told her how helpless I felt
and how I felt like I should have done more, or done something else, be more proactive. She plainly said that I did the best I could do, that I got away
unharmed and that's a positive, a win. The fact that I could walk away (FAST) from it and keep a cool head was amazing and to be admired. I think about it
now, and I know I wasn't under my own control- a few angels might have given me wings to 'fly'. Whatever the case, I wasn't hurt any worse and
that's the main thing. I am still gonna talk to someone, a professional or spiritual leader, very soon. Just for my peace of mind, more than anything. I
just hope they find this creep, and haul him in. I don't want someone else to go through what I did. Maybe that's me being selfish, but hell- what if
it had been my flatmate, or a good friend, or god forbid my nieces?? I'd want that bastard's head on a pike in the City Center! For a MONTH! And have
these mad Aberdonian seagulls shite on it to boot. Woo....anger moment, sorry about that. But I swear, If I saw him this moment, they'd run me for
attempted homicide. LOL
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Ballyorn |
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I'd wanna kill the bastard too, Sweetie!!!
I understand the unreal experience feeling you had and also the guilt. This is the normal reaction to situations such as these. And the police woman is absolutely right. You did the best you could. "Maybe that's me being selfish"No way!! You caring about others is DEFINITELY not selfish. It shows you to be a very caring person
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Necromancer1000 |
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My goodness, Christie, how awful.
I don't know what to say. I'm glad you came away unharmed, but if you need to rant or just talk things out, then go right ahead. It's a good sign you're able to talk about it. That's a good thing. I hope seeing a professional will help you work through the horror of it. Any update from the police on the suspect?
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GlitterGrrl2 |
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It's still a bit surreal, but then it flashes back on me and I realize it *did* happen. That's been the toughest.
The police put out a short piece in the local papers today. My name was not mentioned, but all the particulars were. It felt like I was so distanced from it, but I knew I wasn't. Odd feeling. And what bothers me is I can still hear his voice and what he said and everything. I shudder when that happens. That's the true rough part of it all. They had me look at some more pictures today, and I think they might have a suspect in mind. They do want me to be sure, though. A young man saw me immediately after I got away, and I spoke to him, so they want to talk to him as well, since he said he saw him and that's when I took off. He might live nearby so that would be a plus. I am trying to get in to see someone, it's going to be tight but I hope before Thursday. |
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marilee |
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wow, glad you are ok! I hope they catch the bastard. That's frightening
I hope you can get some professional or spiritual help soon. It'll ease your mind. we're here to support you as well if you need to talk! Marilee |
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flybaby014563 |
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Ok, I'm gonna be completely honest is saying that I did get a little drunk this afternoon. Now, depending how much I drank or if people want to piss me
off, I can either be a happy drunk or a pissed off drunk. I've been pretty mad today because of stuff that has been happening at school. So right after my
Reporting II class, I got some money and headed down to Stone Caynon (sp?) for a couple of drinks and some lunch.
I'm partly sober right before Interpersonal Communication I. There is a guy in the class named Ryan who tends to get on a LOT of people's nerves. Mostly because he's loud, rude and interrupts not only the students, but the teachers a lot as well. For any of you who knows about American football, the draft is coming up this week. I made a little sarcastic joke about our football team here (the Kansas City Chiefs). Ryan then told me to not talk. OH did that set me off! I basically told him that he has no right to tell me what to do and that we could take our "little" conversation out in the hall. Cause I was feeling like giving the asshole a can of whoop-ass right there. He didn't apologize to me, and I really don't give a shit at this point because I can't stand him anyways. He just needs to know that next time, don't mess with me when I'm not in a good mood..
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Necromancer1000 |
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Makes note to self - never piss off Nikki.
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Necromancer1000 |
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All the best to you, Christie. I do hope you're OK and fingers crossed they catch the bastard ASAP. Please keep us updated with how you're doing and if
the police get a breakthrough.
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flybaby014563 |
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I was just drunk and pissed off, which is really weird cause I'm usually a happy drunk.
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GlitterGrrl2 |
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Thanks all.
My circle mostly knows now, and they are making sure I cab it from now on, no exceptions. Scottish girls can be pushy when they want to be, and it's fine by me. LOL It's a day to day, or sometimes hour to hour thing w/me right now. What will be good is that I will be out of town for most of the upcoming weekend, in the Scottish countryside, so I am looking towards that greatly. Plus I have seen my crush once this week already, and will see him again in 2 days. Heh- well, he's a crush that I happen to be in love with, but that is a whole 'nother post for a different place. I will keep everyone posted. |
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Skib |
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Christie, Sorry to hear of your experience, it's shite (fellow scot) but don't let him get to you. He's obviously an inadequate. Be careful and
DO take taxis and try to take them with at least one of your girlfriends. At least until you get a wee bit more confident. Support girl!
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Princess Ishtan |
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OMG! Christie, I just read what happened to you. I am so sorry. I hope they catch that asshole that did this.
I wish you all the best in healing from this horrible ordeal.
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